A couple of months ago my editor gave me a sheepish look and said “I have signed you up for something. It may be difficult.”
Ok, that sounds interesting..
The project was for me and my family to live off of a Calgary InterFaith Food Bank food hamper for one week to launch Husky’s Help The Hungry week and to open a dialogue about hunger in Calgary. Being the people pleaser I am, and being a long time supporter of The Food Bank, I immediately said yes.
The rules are clear:
1. Participants pick up a hamper just like any person in need would.
2. You can eat only the contents of the hamper with the exception of salt, pepper, flour,sugar and oil.
3.You cannot buy beverages or food nor accept them as offerings.
4. You can use up to three kinds of spices and only what you have on hand.
5. You cannot take any vitamins, Advil or Tylenol as a person in need would normally not have these “extras” on hand.
Sounds simple enough, although I am titch worried about my picky eater kids, my addiction to caffeine and my afternoon pick me up of chocolate.
I picked up my hamper this afternoon just like anyone else would. I lined up, gave my personal information, including my income from the last 30 days, why I needed food support and my families ID.
Being a pretty confident person, I would never have expected to be unnerved by going through this process, but if I am completely honest, I was. I caught myself looking over my shoulder for people I knew, ready to quickly blurt out that I was just working and not really someone needing help. I am not sure which part of that I am more ashamed about.
Because I have a baby, there were special considerations made for my family. We received extra milk, although they had run out of homo milk and had to substitute with a lower caloric version, 6 diapers – yes moms I said 6 diapers, and baby food if we needed it. I collected my hamper and went to wait in line for some fresh produce. I waited in line beside a lady who was 9 months pregnant and needing some extra food to make ends meet this month. As moms, we all get so busy and fly through our days. This moment was one of those moments that put every one of my complaints into perspective.
Going home I kept thinking about how to make 6 diapers work. Normally we would do a bum change about every 1.5 to 2 hours. More often if he had eaten alot of fruit that day. How would only 6 diapers last one week? It obviously couldn’t, but as a mom, it is pretty hard to think about what people have to do to make that situation work.
Getting back to the house, my kids met me at the door screaming with excitement to see all of the new and exciting food I had brought home. I had prepped them earlier that day that we would be eating different food this week. That we would try to see what it was like if we didn’t have the money to buy our normal food. I had prepared them to try foods they thought they might not like, to not see the normal treats they would have at home, and generally to prepare for less. Walking through the door, it felt like Christmas morning to them, they saw that elusive bag of Oreo cookies they would normally never get, cereal with sugar on it, white bread, orange drink, Kraft Dinner, and pudding. They could hardly believe it. They were not missing the whole grains, the lean meats, the fruit or the 100% juices. For a kid, it seemed great, as a Mom I was gratetful that other moms in trouble had the food bank for desperate situations but I knew this would be a very difficult situation to cope with if it was for real.
I was starting to worry – I miss my Advil all ready……